“I was told I’m not masculine enough, so I want to develop that” or even “someone told me I need to work on that”, I hear quite some clients say. “I want to be more feminine”, I hear from women as well. As if something is wrong with them. When I was in a workshop to learn a new computer skill and I used my intelligent brain (which I love and feel grateful for) to the max of its capacity, a man said to me with a disgusted look on his face: “You are not very balanced in your