I’m not in a ranting mode today, so this will be a different tone than my Wheel rant. ;-) I do want to explain myself and my perception on working with the Wheel of Consent a little bit more. Maybe you’ve heard me say before that it’s important to get proper training on the Wheel of Consent from people that are trained by the School of Consent or from the School of Consent itself. I remember I thought I understood the Wheel after watching the video’s on Betty’s website an

I was talking to a friend about Radiance the other day. Do you know people that always seem to sparkle and shine? That bring their messages with glitter and glam and a ‘life is amazing’-attitude? I’m not one of them. I've never been. Sometimes I wish I was. I do feel that energy once in a while. But glitter and glamour is not my middle name. I heard a song* this morning and I had a clear moment. I felt a strong, radiant energy, but in another, darker, more grounded kind of wa

Sometimes a part of me can get so f*cking annoyed by reading posts or event descriptions on Facebook. Like when people say their sessions are based on the Wheel of Consent or their workshop is based on the Wheel of Consent. O really, I ask… What kind of training did you do with Betty Martin? Or with Matt and Robyn perhaps? With one of the official Facilitators then? None… From what I read in the workshop description , the workshop can never be based on the Wheel. I fe

About Orgasm part 2: Should I avoid a peak orgasm? This is part 2 of my blog about orgasm. In part 1 I wrote about one of the most asked questions I get: How to reach an orgasm? Please read part 1 first: The second question I get a lot, mostly from people that practice Tantra is: Should I avoid peak orgasm? There are some tantric schools that teach participants that peak orgasm should be avoided because it will drain your energy and prevent you from having different (they usu

I often get orgasm questions. Most people have one of the following 2 questions. The first is How to reach orgasm? The second one usually co